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The Rules Handbook

The Rules Handbook

A Guide to Creating Loving and Lasting Relationships
Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider
Sale price$17.95

Millions of women have already learned these time-tested lessons of love. The world has changed . . . Now it’s time for a new generation to find “the one.”

In their #1 New York Times bestseller, THE RULES...

Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider shared their time-tested techniques for finding the “one.” Controversial yet effective, THE RULES has changed millions of women’s lives all over the world since 1995. From Oprah to the Today Show, they helped women attract love through confidence and self-esteem.

Over the past 30 years, the world has changed dramatically. Today, anything goes with fast paced dating and social media. While technology has accelerated the change (Instagram, texting, TikTok), biology has remained the same. It was time for a much needed reminder.

The Rules Handbook was written out of necessity. Ellen and Sherrie were hearing from many of their readers who had successfully applied the original Rules’ formula but experienced frustration when dealing with others. They wanted a similar strategy to create loving and lasting relationships outside of romance as well. This led to coaching workshops to help others establish their own self-esteem, boundaries, and life philosophies.

The Rules Handbook will do the same for you while helping attract the right people into your life and preventing or minimizing any unnecessary hurt or disrespect. This new book is organized to help you focus on your own life first, remain happy and busy, and nurture your Higher Self, as opposed to your Lower Self. You can then set healthy boundaries with confidence, and not lose your power to distance yourself from opinions or comments others make in person or on social media.

The Rules Handbook will empower you to gracefully step away from difficult people and instead, invest all that time and energy on yourself and the ones who truly love and respect you. 

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About Author

Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider

Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider met in New York City circa 1990 when they were in their mid-twenties and became fast friends. Ellen had an accounting degree and was studying for her Masters in Social Work and Sherrie was a journalist. Both were career women who were told "you can do anything you want" in business and romance. As their friendship grew, so did their search for love as they often shared dating stories with each other. Seeing the need for basic, commonsense guidance, they organized their thoughts and in 1995 released THE RULES, which gave women newfound confidence in their search for love.

Testimonial

“If you want to get good at The Rules, you’re going to have to live and breathe them.”

A relatively easy task with a guide as helpful as this one. The Rules Handbook by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider delves into each and every complex relationship one can find themselves in, from the blossoming buds of a new relationship to a decades-long marriage. All of our situations may feel unique and slightly scary to manage on our own, but there exists a set of rules to help us out along the way which Fein and Schneider successfully layout on the table for us. Reading a book for advice may feel uncomfortable at first, I know. However, these two wonderful women do not feel like just the writers of this book, they feel like a best friend holding your hand through the relationship-storm. Relinquish yourself and let your troubles dissipate with the words and affirmations you have needed all along.
The terms used to describe the rules are “ageless and timeless,” perfectly encapsulating the profound impact of this handbook as well. This guide situates itself in the modern age where we as a society must now deal with the battlefield of new, emerging technologies in our everyday relationships. We already have so much on our plate with in-person communication, but now we have to deal with DM’s too? Yet, the rules from decades ago can still easily be applied to the now, transcending time itself. That is how powerful they truly are. One of the true beauties of this handbook is its belief in individual change. We may hold on to the perception that we are fixed humans and stick with the beliefs that no longer serve us. This book never lets you forget though that there is always room for self-improvement, growth, and the endless possibility of reaching our full potential on a daily basis.
You may be thinking, well, what if I still get rejected while following all these rules? Guess what? The handbook has this subject covered too. The guide does not rule out the possibility of things not working out despite our better efforts. What it does flawlessly is help us flip our perspective on what rejection truly means. Do not look at rejection from someone as a fault within ourselves when we can see it for what it really is: a protection against what was not meant for us. When we flip the negative way we think, we are better off for it.
There is strength in seeking out guidance and direction. What better way to begin than with Fein and Schneider? Take the steps towards a new way of life and watch how you begin to see the world much brighter than before.